Voices of Integrity
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A podcast about Voices Of Integrity for Women
1-2: Podcast for Women - Open Session
What Do We Need To Hear?
What questions do you have about women... about your spouse, above children / family ... but are afraid to ask and/or maybe you have a hard time coming up with the right words? You'll enjoy podcasts in this areas where others seem to know what questions you would love to ask.
1-3: About The Group / Podcast
" What Is This Group / Podcast About? How Can We Join The Podcast? Which Type Of People Will Gain The Most Value From This Podcast?"
What Is This Group / Podcast About?
This podcast dives into the world of women's life, offering insights on navigating challenges and improving your married life. It shares practical tips on dealing with spouses and handling tough situations, aiming to make relationships stronger. Join in to discover ways to enhance communication, understanding, and overall happiness in your married journey.
How Can We Join The LIVE Podcast?
To join the podcast, simply click the provided Zoom link every Saturday at 7:00 PM Eastern Time. The discussion centers around improving life / marriages and handling challenges. Go to www.RavingFan.net to join live Zoom.
Do You Have A Question / Problem?
Have You Benefited From These Podcasts?
People We Are Looking For?
This podcast is for women who want to make their relationships better ... well ... more than better, we want to learn how to have the marriage / life of our dreams.
If you're having issues or just want a happier life / marriage, this is the right place. We talk about simple tips and ideas to improve how you get along with your spouse. Join us for friendly discussions and practical advice on making your married life more joyful. Whether it's problems with talking or just wanting more happiness, we're here to help. Tune in and let's work together to make your marriage stronger and happier.
1-4: Introduction
" What is the vision for the podcast for Women? As a woman, what are the biggest challenges you are facing? "
Vision
Biggest Challenge?
What is the vision for the podcast for Women? As a woman, what are the biggest challenges you are facing?
What problems are you having that just don't seem to go away? How do we as women learn to think differently about our challenges / problems?
Can men benefit from this podcast? Yes ... if the men are honestly interested in understanding women at a level that most men seem to honestly not want to know.
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1-5: How much do men know about women?
What about a man who has been married for 40 years, and has 4 daughters (167+ cumulative years)? What's really interesting is how many men will have the thoughts that Mark shared, but ... maybe wisely or maybe out of fear will not share their thoughts.
Thoughts?
Women often SAY they want to know what a man is really feeling. But let's be honest, "Do they really?"
Mark's answer to this is ... "NO women do want to know what men are thinking and feeling ... well ... but they do."
If men think it's hard to be around women ... think about it just for a moment. "What's it like to be a woman?"
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She doesn't want to know ... but she does. Is she terrified, maybe at a subconscious level, of knowing what a man really thinks or is feeling ... but her mind goes crazy thinking if he's thinking ____________ or maybe ____________ about her, and the only thing worse in her mind than a man thinking either of those things is ... what ... if he's not even thinking about her at all.
Hmmm ... we wonder if there will be any follow-up podcasts to this one?
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What challenges do individuals face throughout their lives?
What solutions exist for these challenges and problems?
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Amiable Personality
Are you or someone you care about feeling stressed and pressured? This podcast aims to support individuals experiencing these challenges.
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Analytic Likes Small Details?
Are you aware of someone analytical with knowledge, wisdom, organizational skills, attention to detail, and a penchant for thinking they're always right?
If he can spare 30 minutes for a podcast, call 630.393.9909 and suggest him as a potential guest.
Do you have a confidential problem you can't share or have sought advice elsewhere without success?
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Analytical Personality
Are you aware of someone analytical with knowledge, wisdom, organizational skills, attention to detail, and a penchant for thinking they're always right? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
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Expressive Personality
Do you know someone who is analytical, believes in their wisdom, is organized, attentive to details, and feels confident about their opinions? If they can spare 30 minutes for a podcast, call 630.393.9909 and suggest them as a potential guest.
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Chaser
Driver Sees Behind The Wall?
Do you know someone who is driven, believes they are passionate and energetic, enjoys propelling things forward, and has a conviction in being right?
If they can spare 30 minutes for a podcast, call 630.393.9909 and suggest them as a potential guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share, or have you sought advice elsewhere without success?
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Driver Sees Behind The Wall?
Do you know someone who is driven, believes they are passionate and energetic, enjoys propelling things forward, and has a conviction in being right? If they can spare 30 minutes for a podcast, call 630.393.9909 and suggest them as a potential guest.
Why will Life GPS mobile web app help me?
Are you looking for answers / solutions?
People around the country are finding this free mobile web app to assist them to better understand themselves and others around them, to "get into flow" and come together as one heart, one mind to be able to not only do life together, but to take everyone's God given passions and accomplish far more for the kingdom together than we ever could on our own.
Out Of Order
Are you drawn to the cube and/or do you not like when things aren't done properly and in order? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn to better connect with others you may be frustrated with.
Out Of Control
Conflict With Others
Are you drawn to the Ball and/or do you dislike conflict with others? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how not to fear conflict.
Boring / Not Fun
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The Voices of Integrity Podcast caters to visionary individuals, covering a wide range of diverse subjects.
What You Will Experience On This Podcast:
How To LEVERAGE Talents
How do we LEVERAGE in a positive way, everyone in our lives for mutual benefit?
How To LEVERAGE Systems
How do we build the right systems to LEVERAGE our passions, our life vision and all other systems for success?
How To LEVERAGE Networks
You are LEVERAGING your networks and the networks for those around you for everyone's mutual success?
Voices Of Integrity . . . It is being designed and engineered to help you deeply understand "INTEGRITY".
We all have been given our personalities ... "Our Bent" from God through how He created us in our womb, through how we were raised and our life experiences.
The diagram to the right reveals what some of the common mental health issues are with each personality type.
Hmmm ... this is interesting, isn't it? Imagine ... learning about how we could identify our mental health challenge BEFORE they brought great harm to us and those around us.
The questions we ask, the questions we answer, how we answer the questions and what questions we tend to try to ignore tell us a great deal about ourselves and may reveal a great deal about how our mental health is currently and will be in the future.
The Amiable Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Amiable Not Like Asked?"
Peace & Harmony
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Care for people.* Are nice to others.
* Love peace and seek to avoid conflicts.
* Enjoy being around people.
* Serving others.
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AmiableChose the ball ~ Does not like conflict
If you chose the ball and/or you chose that you don't like conflict then you likely are what we refer to as an Amiable.
Questions the Amiable Does Not Like To Hear
We as amiable personalities tend to like questions which reveal how nice, kind and loving we are. We tend to not like questions which challenge the way we think about ourselves.
What No One Teaches Us ...
As a spouse who is amiable, we tend to tell people what they like to hear, what feels good to people and that results in others telling us what we want to hear. We don't treat our spouse like we treat others and that can build a lot of resentment in our spouses.
The Analytic Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Analytic Personality Tend To Like Have Asked?"
Done In Good Order
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be strong in our knowledge to relationships.
* Enjoy teaching others.
* Have strength in studying & learning things.
* Enjoy explaining things to others.
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Questions the Analytic Does Not Like To Hear
- How much of the knowledge you have actually helps us?
- How can someone know so much and understand so little?
- Do you understand how self righteous you are and how much better you think you are than others around you?
- Why is your ego so very big and how in the world can you not see that?
We as analytic personalities tend to like questions which reveal how smart and intelligent we are. We tend to not like questions which challenge the way we think about ourselves.
What No One Teaches Us ...
The Expressive Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Expressive Personality Tend Not To Like?"
Done With Energy
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be strong in energy and passion.
* Enjoy seeing others feel and join in success.
* Have strengths in being outgoing and creating excitement with others
* Able to motivate and inspire others to do things that people never thought possible.
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ExpressiveChose the wavy line ~ Don't like things which are boring or not fun
If you chose the wavy line and/or you chose that you don't like when things are boring or not fun then you are likely the the expressive personality.
Questions the Expressive Tends Not To Like
- Why do you think you have such low self esteem, self image that you have to always be the center of attention?
- Why do you have to make a joke out of everything?
- Why does everything have to be fun and why do I get stuck doing all the things you don't enjoy doing?
- Why aren't you able to feel anyone else's pain / feelings / energy than your own?
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as expressive literally get a dopamine hit in our brain which makes us feel good because we feel funny, important, the center of attention ... and that can lead to narcissism and the other mental health issues that we often have build up over the years.
"What Questions Does The Driver Personality Tend Not To Like?"
Very Driven!
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be very strong in doing what others aren't willing or able to do. Do the impossible.
* Willing to confront things which are wrong.
* Great at seeing a very large vision.
* Strong in taking risks.
* Very direct / honest with people.
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DriverChose the pyramid ~ Don't like when things are out of control
If you chose the pyramid and/or you chose that you don't like when things are out of control then you are likely the driver personality.
Actually ... the sad truth may be that the driver personality may not mind these questions as they get them from a lot of people in their lives and kind of build up a tolerance. This could be good or bad, it just depends.
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as the driver personality, get a dopamine hit in our brain when things get out of control and we become a superhero ... which is not always bad but can be bad at times. Does it cause mental health issues in us or maybe it creates mental health issues, that often build up over the years, in others?
What Benefit Would I Gain? How Does It Work?
This Podcast will encourage you and help you heal!!!
This Podcast will encourage you and help you heal!!!
Quantum Feeling Model
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Hmmm ... that would be self-righteousness. Do we find parts of the Bible to support our perspective and in doing so, and in doing so reveal that our hearts are the same as those we tend to think we see in others? Do we slip into being self-righteous ... where we feel, and don't even realize that we're feeling entitlement and self-righteousness which often quickly leads to being a victim.
What are the results of these three feelings? Depression, anger and bitterness.
What are the vaccines to each of the three of these?
Entitlement ~ Thankfulness ... When we are thankful we it helps us to see all the amazing blessings that we have and don't become self-centered / consumed and will prevent us from moving into Self-Righteousness.
Self-Righteousness ~ Humility ... Saying we are humble doesn't make us humble. In being men, it seems we have more challenges than the average person in keeping humble. Just being honest and transparent ... we get up on Sunday's and often preach what people like to hear and they come up and tell us how amazing we are and how the service touched their lives. A lot of people feel good about what we do and we feel good ... feelings so many feelings and that often leads to being self-righteous when someone questions us or asks us a hard question.
Victim ~ Ownership ... How many times as men do we struggle with taking personal ownership and feel that others have hurt us, been unfair to us and never even ask what we did to hurt them? We often, as men, surround ourselves with people, who will tell us what we want to here and tell ourside of the story and poison / destory those around us who dare to question or challenge us.
How Various Personalities Are Vulnerable
Analytic ~ Cube & "Out Of Order"
Vulnerable to being OCD, fixated on the smallest details and miss the big picture. Can be defensive, have challenges in taking ownership and often struggles with ego & self-righteousness.
Amiable ~ Ball & "Conflict With Others"
Vulnerable to being taken advantage of and taking advantage of others and not realizing it. Due to fear of conflict they can make things far worse because they do not address things quickly. So focused on people that often tasks don't get done and/or allowing people to take advantage of use and those around us.
How Do We Change At A Heart Level?
How do we know we truly understand? We DO ... We Change!
We are seeking to work together to learn how to help people / couples to INTERNALIZE things faster. The faster we INTERNALIZE things, the faster we achieve CLARITY as to the type of marriage we both desire, the faster we SEE success, the faster we learn to THINK differently and the faster we DO, or take action.
Internalization
Often, in our marriage, we say "I get it" when in fact we actually think we get it, but we really do not. What individuals are missing is the Natural Law of The NEXT Dimension Principle. It helps us to SEE that "Yes" we do "get it" at our current way of thinking but there is a whole new dimension, The NEXT Dimension where if we are humble or curious like a small child we will jump through the Dimensional GAP that maybe one spouse senses or feels the marriage is in, but the other one does not.
Another good book is "Stop Walking on Eggshells" and helps to understand Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD. What's interesting is that the spouse who has the BPD will almost never read the book. It's like ... they have imposter syndrome ... and somehow, in their minds, they believe that is a good thing and have data to back it up. Meanwhile the BPD's spouse continues to suffer and questions if they are the one who has the issues. The BPD is a master and the 9 D's to distraction of others. ~ click here ~
Time Wasters
When we learn to be intentional as to WHAT and WHY we are saying something and actually give consideration to if what we are saying has value or if there was something better we could share ... we will see our lives change.
If you say ... "That seems like a lot of work." or "That doesn't sound fun" ... well ... not to be harsh but if we think this, we may both be lazy and selfish.
People who are lazy and selfish tend to have challenges in having deep relationships and often are not very happy and feel they are not fulfilled. The reason we have feelings like this ... is ... well ... because it's often true. Taking medication may help to change the feelings ... but doesn't do anything to change the truth. We can feel good, in the short term ... but we are still lazy and selfish.
"10 Reasons Why Someone Talks"
We as human beings often seem to not think about the words we use to speak or why we are saying what we are saying. We waste words and often talk about things that have very little value. - 1. Clueless ~ Don’t actually know why they are talking. They just talk.
- 2. Ego ~ To impress others. To make themselves feel or look good.
- 3. Seduce ~ People want to seduce you into thinking the way they think.
- 4. Educate ~ People don’t think you know what they know so they feel a need to explain.
- 5. Connect ~ People feel more connected by talking so they talk more to be more connected.
- 6. Move ~ People want you to move from one place / way of thinking to where they are.
- 7. Insecure ~ They talk to gain confidence or at least perceived confidence.
- 8. Thinking ~ People feel they need to talk to think. Not the most effective way to think.
- 9. Destruction ~ The 9 D’s to the path destruction. They are headed there and will lead you.
- 10. Intention ~ To accomplish something very specific with everything they say.
Does It Bother You ...
Does it bother you when people answer questions you never asked and or don't answer the questions you do ask?
Why do people do this?
1. Poor Listening
What's interesting is that people often don't even hear the question you ask. TIP: Stop them and ask them if they heard the question you asked.
3. Arrogance
Often people think that they know more than you do and give you an answer to a question they think is a better question than you asked. TIP: Maybe say ... "Wow that's a great answer to a different question than I asked ... so ... what ... (ask the question again)."
Low EQ (emotional quotient) is Emotional Intelligence where people give you a low level answer to a question you never asked. TIP: Maybe just smile and say "Thanks."
6. Sphere Of Influence
Maybe try ... "Did you realize you didn't answer the question that I asked?"
"Any idea why?"
Remember ... and give some room as most people asking questions ... also have no real intention behind the question so people aren't used to someone actually caring if they answered a question.
