Voices of Integrity
A podcast about Voices Of Integrity With Veterans / Military
1-1: About The Group / Podcast
" What Is This Group / Podcast About? How Can We Join The Podcast? Which Type Of People Will Gain The Most Value From This Podcast?"
What Is This Group / Podcast About?
Are we appreciative of the freedoms we have? No ... we're not talking "TALK appreciative" but "DO appreciative." This podcast will change how you think ... about ... well ... maybe everything? Voices of Integrity is all about the search for the truth and let's be honest the truth often hurts. We seek to be honest AND caring at the same time.
How Can We Join The LIVE Podcast?
To join the podcast, simply click the provided Zoom link every Sunday at 2 PM Eastern Time. The discussion centers around improving affairs and handling challenges. Go to www.RavingFan.net to join live Zoom.
Do You Have A Question / Problem?
Have You Benefited From These Podcasts?
People We Are Looking For?
We seek to help those men and women who have served our country, give us the freedoms that we all enjoy and benefit from. We seek to help those veterans / those who are currently in the military to have their time of service to be meaningful ... for themselves and others.
There are no questions which are wrong / bad and/or too hard of questions. If you ever get offended ... maybe a saying from Jim Bontrager will help. "God offends the mind to reveal the heart." We're quick to judge / see how the hearts of others are messed up, but maybe not so quick to see how our own hearts aren't in the best shape as well. If you're offended by any podcast, become engaged, become a guest and let's have honest conversations.
1-2: I Need Encouragement
"Learning how to be encouraged."
Harmony
I feel discouraged!
Are you veteran... or someone who cares about other veterans? This podcast will help any veteran who is feeling stressed and pressured and know they need help.
What are the challenges veterans are having and what is the solution to those challenges / problems? ~ click here ~ to share.
How can we be an encouragement to ourselves and other amish people?
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Amiable Personality ~ Conflict With Others
In Military, imagine achieving your ideal life! Discover the secrets to deeper harmony and connection in your relationships. Know someone caring who might face challenges with others taking advantage of their kindness?
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-3: How Do I Solve My Problems?
"Do I really want to solve my problems? Am I sure?"
Quality
I feel lonely!
Do you know a veteran who is very knowledgeable, has wisdom, has a heart to help others and is willing to give 30 minutes of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer and/or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Analytic Personality ~ Pain: Out of Order
In the Military, picture creating your ideal life. What elements would define your dream lifestyle? Consider aspects like consistency, order, and a balance without too much commotion.
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-4: How Do I Get People To Listen To Me?
"What if ... I have to talk less to get people to listen to me more?
Excitement
I feel lost.
Do you know a veteran who may have some interest in helping others in their veterans and is willing to give 30 minutes of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer and/or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
The Expressive Personality
Pain: Boring / Not Fun
In Military, imagine building profound connections in your relationships. What steps are essential to achieve the depth you desire, and what efforts would you and others need to make?
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-5: How Do I Drive People Forward?
How Do I Drive My Love Forward?
Growth
I feel misunderstood
Do you know a veteran who is powerful, passionate, has guts, are creative thinkers, a heart to help others and are willing to give 30 minute of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Driver Personality ~
Pain: Out Of Control
In Military, picture experiencing the most vibrant and impactful connections. Envision a relationship that channels your drive and passion, empowering you and those around you to reach your fullest potential.
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-6: How Do I Change Myself?
How Do I Change Myself According To The Situation?
Action
I feel misunderstood
Do you know a veteran who is listener, understanding, make sacrifices for one another, has a heart to help others and are willing to give 30 minute of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Chameleon Personality ~
In the Military, picture experiencing an incredibly powerful connection, a partnership that allows you to fully leverage your drive and passion to help both yourself and those around you reach their fullest potential.
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
2-1: Why will Life GPS mobile web app help me?
Are you looking for answers / solutions?
In the Amish community, what challenges are you currently encountering in your life or relationships? If someone were to offer assistance, what specific areas in your life or relationships would you appreciate help with the most?
People globally are embracing a free mobile web app to gain deeper self-understanding and insights into their relationships. This tool facilitates unity, allowing individuals to come together with a shared purpose and vision, pursuing not only shared experiences but also their personal dreams. The app instills hope for meaningful connections and excitement for realizing their aspirations.
Analytic
Out Of Order
Are you drawn to the cube and/or do you not like when things aren't done properly and in order? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn to better connect with others you may be frustrated with.
"Ready, Aim ... check, check check."
Driver
Out Of Control
Are you drawn to the Pyramid and/or do you dislike when things are out of control? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how to help others to learn to control their own lives so you don't have to clean up after others.
"Fire, Aim ... 'Are we ready?'"
Amiable
Are you drawn to the Ball and/or do you dislike conflict with others? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how not to fear conflict.
"Are we all ready? Are we sure?"
Expressive
Boring / Not Fun
Are you drawn to the Wavy Line and/or do you dislike things which are boring or not fun? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how to have more fun in your life.
"We're ready! Fire ... Aim?"
2-2: Ask Your Question Here...
Ask Your Question / Thought and/or Problem Here ...
Would you like a volunteer to connect with you?
Share Your Experiences Here...
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The Voices of Integrity Podcast caters to visionary individuals, covering a wide range of diverse subjects.
2-3: What You Will Experience On This Podcast:
How To LEVERAGE Talents
How do we LEVERAGE in a positive way, everyone in our lives for mutual benefit?
How To LEVERAGE Systems
How do we build the right systems to LEVERAGE our passions, our life vision and all other systems for success?
How To LEVERAGE Networks
Voices Of Integrity . . . It is being designed and engineered to help you deeply understand "INTEGRITY".
2-4: Personality Types & Mental Health
The questions we ask, the questions we answer, how we answer the questions and what questions we tend to try to ignore tell us a great deal about ourselves and may reveal a great deal about how our mental health is currently and will be in the future.
We all have been given our personalities ... "Our Bent" from how we were created in the womb, through how we were raised and our life experiences.
The diagram to the right reveals what some of the common mental health issues are with each personality type.
Hmmm ... this is interesting, isn't it? Imagine ... learning about how we could identify our mental health challenge BEFORE they brought great harm to us and those around us.
What if ... we're thinking about mental health in the wrong way?
The Amiable Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Amiable Not Like Asked?"
Peace & Harmony
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Care for people.* Are nice to others.
* Love peace and seek to avoid conflicts.
* Enjoy being around people.
* Serving others.
Audio Podcast
Video Podcast
AmiableChose the ball ~ Does not like conflict
If you chose the ball and/or you chose that you don't like conflict then you likely are what we refer to as an Amiable.
Questions the Amiable Does Not Like To Hear
We as amiable personalities tend to like questions which reveal how nice, kind and loving we are. We tend to not like questions which challenge the way we think about ourselves.
What No One Teaches Us ...
As a spouse who is amiable, we tend to tell people what they like to hear, what feels good to people and that results in others telling us what we want to hear. We don't treat our spouse like we treat others and that can build a lot of resentment in our spouses.
The Analytic Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Analytic Personality Tend To Like Have Asked?"
Done In Good Order
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be strong in our knowledge to relationships.
* Enjoy teaching others.
* Have strength in studying & learning things.
* Enjoy explaining things to others.
Video Podcast
Questions the Analytic Does Not Like To Hear
We as analytic personalities tend to like questions which reveal how smart and intelligent we are. We tend to not like questions which challenge the way we think about ourselves.
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as analytics literally get a dopamine hit in our brain which makes us feel good because we feel smart ... and that can lead to pride and the other mental health issues that we often have build up over the years.
The Expressive Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Expressive Personality Tend Not To Like?"
Done With Energy
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be strong in energy and passion.
* Enjoy seeing others feel and join in success.
* Have strengths in being outgoing and creating excitement with others
* Able to motivate and inspire others to do things that people never thought possible.
Video Podcast
ExpressiveChose the wavy line ~ Don't like things which are boring or not fun
If you chose the wavy line and/or you chose that you don't like when things are boring or not fun then you are likely the the expressive personality.
Questions the Expressive Tends Not To Like
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as expressive literally get a dopamine hit in our brain which makes us feel good because we feel funny, important, the center of attention ... and that can lead to narcissism and the other mental health issues that we often have build up over the years.
The Driver Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Driver Personality Tend Not To Like?"
Very Driven!
Audio Podcast
Video Podcast
DriverChose the pyramid ~ Don't like when things are out of control
If you chose the pyramid and/or you chose that you don't like when things are out of control then you are likely the driver personality.
Questions the Driver Tends Not To Like
- How can you be so clear on your goals and you seem to be unable to even see the goals that I want in life?
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Why are you always so mean to everyone ... and you don't even seem to care?
- Why do you think people are so stupid?
- Why can't you just be nice to people?
- Why do you always have to be doing something / accomplishing something?
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as the driver personality, get a dopamine hit in our brain when things get out of control and we become a superhero ... which is not always bad but can be bad at times. Does it cause mental health issues in us or maybe it creates mental health issues, that often build up over the years, in others?
What Benefit Would I Gain? How Does It Work?
This Podcast will encourage you and help you heal!!!
This Podcast will encourage you and help you heal!!!
Quantum Feeling Model
Are feelings important? Of course they are ... but, maybe not the way we think they are. Think about it ... when we have physical pain, what do we learn from that physical pain? We learn that there is something that is not right with us. Physical pain doesn't reveal that something is wrong with others, it represents that something is wrong with us.
Video Podcast
Audio Podcast
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
How Various Personalities Are Vulnerable
Analytic ~ Cube & "Out Of Order"
Vulnerable to being OCD, fixated on the smallest details and miss the big picture. Can be defensive, have challenges in taking ownership and often struggles with ego & self-righteousness.
Driver ~ Pyramid & "Out Of Control"
Vulnerable to being perceived as being abusive, controlling and overly aggressive. Can overreact to their perception of things being out of control and often do not realize how powerful they can come across to others. Often these personalities are the most vulnerable but seem like they are the least vulnerable.
Expressive ~ Wavy Line & "Boring and/or Not Fun"
Vulnerable to being a bit crazy, doing risky things, coming across as flippant, dismissive and cocky. Vulnerable to making rash decisions, making mistakes due to not having all the details.
Amiable ~ Ball & "Conflict With Others"
Vulnerable to being taken advantage of and taking advantage of others and not realizing it. Due to fear of conflict they can make things far worse because they do not address things quickly. So focused on people that often tasks don't get done and/or allowing people to take advantage of use and those around us.
How Do We Change At A Heart Level?
How do we know we truly understand? We DO ... We Change!
Internalization ~ The deep feeling or sense, the embedding of something directly into our very DNA.
We are seeking to work together to learn how to help people / couples to INTERNALIZE things faster. The faster we INTERNALIZE things, the faster we achieve CLARITY as to the type of marriage we both desire, the faster we SEE success, the faster we learn to THINK differently and the faster we DO, or take action.
Internalization
Often, in our marriage, we say "I get it" when in fact we actually think we get it, but we really do not. What individuals are missing is the Natural Law of The NEXT Dimension Principle. It helps us to SEE that "Yes" we do "get it" at our current way of thinking but there is a whole new dimension, The NEXT Dimension where if we are humble or curious like a small child we will jump through the Dimensional GAP that maybe one spouse senses or feels the marriage is in, but the other one does not.
Time Wasters
When we learn to be intentional as to WHAT and WHY we are saying something and actually give consideration to if what we are saying has value or if there was something better we could share ... we will see our lives change.
People who are lazy and selfish tend to have challenges in having deep relationships and often are not very happy and feel they are not fulfilled. The reason we have feelings like this ... is ... well ... because it's often true. Taking medication may help to change the feelings ... but doesn't do anything to change the truth. We can feel good, in the short term ... but we are still lazy and selfish.
"10 Reasons Why Someone Talks"
We as human beings often seem to not think about the words we use to speak or why we are saying what we are saying. We waste words and often talk about things that have very little value. - 1. Clueless ~ Don’t actually know why they are talking. They just talk.
- 2. Ego ~ To impress others. To make themselves feel or look good.
- 3. Seduce ~ People want to seduce you into thinking the way they think.
- 4. Educate ~ People don’t think you know what they know so they feel a need to explain.
- 5. Connect ~ People feel more connected by talking so they talk more to be more connected.
- 6. Move ~ People want you to move from one place / way of thinking to where they are.
- 7. Insecure ~ They talk to gain confidence or at least perceived confidence.
- 8. Thinking ~ People feel they need to talk to think. Not the most effective way to think.
- 9. Destruction ~ The 9 D’s to the path destruction. They are headed there and will lead you.
- 10. Intention ~ To accomplish something very specific with everything they say.
Why do people do this?
1. Poor Listening
What's interesting is that people often don't even hear the question you ask. TIP: Stop them and ask them if they heard the question you asked.
People often fear that if they answer your question, it will reveal something about themselves that they do not want you /others to know. TIP: Say ... "Hmmm, that's interesting ..." and then ask the same question again.
3. Arrogance
Often people think that they know more than you do and give you an answer to a question they think is a better question than you asked. TIP: Maybe say ... "Wow that's a great answer to a different question than I asked ... so ... what ... (ask the question again)."
5. Low EQ
Low EQ (emotional quotient) is Emotional Intelligence where people give you a low level answer to a question you never asked. TIP: Maybe just smile and say "Thanks."
6. Sphere Of Influence
Often people who explain themselves, give a lot of details when we are asking a "Yes" or "No" question. This indicates they are often surrounded by people who need explanation / lower level answers and they are just used to that.
Maybe Try ...
Try to have a bit of fun with people and ... ask them the question that they already gave the answer to. :-) What's the strange ... is that they often won't answer the question they already answered.
Maybe try ... "Did you realize you didn't answer the question that I asked?"
"Any idea why?"
Remember ... and give some room as most people asking questions ... also have no real intention behind the question so people aren't used to someone actually caring if they answered a question.