Voices of Integrity
PODCAST
A podcast about Voices Of Integrity With Public Servants
1-1: About The Group / Podcast
" What Is This Group / Podcast About? How Can We Join The Podcast? Which Type Of People Will Gain The Most Value From This Podcast?"
What Is This Group / Podcast About?
As a public servant, do you ever get frustrated with how the general public treats you? If you're a politician do you ever feel no one respects you? Do you ever get discouraged and feel like giving up? Voices of Integrity is all about the search for the truth and let's be honest the truth often hurts. u to do what you desire to do and that's to serve others.
How Can We Join The LIVE Podcast?
To join the podcast, simply click the provided Zoom link every Saturday at 8 AM Eastern Time. The discussion centers around improving affairs with public and handling challenges. Go to www.RavingFan.net to join live Zoom.
Do You Have A Question / Problem?
Have You Benefited From These Podcasts?
People We Are Looking For?
The saying ... "Power corrupts and absolute power, corrupts absolutely." ... has a lot of truth to it. If you're a public servant you see everyday where people take advantage of you and mistreat you. If you're dealing with public servants, you see how ... how can we best say it, "Some ... maybe a few bad apples, seem to embrace the power of serving the public and forget they serve at the pleasure of the public? If you're a public servant and feel that the system is swallowing you whole ... we're here for you and have some ideas, practical suggestions, tools and an amazing group of people who can / will help you to do what you desire to do and that's to serve others.
Be ready for honest conversations and ... yes ... specific case studies, with specific names to help change the culture to being a public servant, both within the system and also the public that is served.
1-2: I Need Encouragement
"Learning how to be encouraged."
Harmony
I feel discouraged!
Are you a public servant... or someone who cares about other public servants? This podcast will help any veteran who is feeling stressed and pressured and know they need help.
What are the challenges public servants are having and what is the solution to those challenges / problems? ~ click here ~ to share.
How can we be an encouragement to ourselves and other public servants?
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Amiable Personality ~ Conflict With Others
While serving the public, imagine achieving your ideal life! Discover the secrets to deeper harmony and connection in your relationships. Know someone caring who might face challenges with others taking advantage of their kindness?
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-3: How Do I Solve My Problems?
"Do I really want to solve my problems? Am I sure?"
Quality
I feel lonely!
Do you know a public servant who is very knowledgeable, has wisdom, has a heart to help others and is willing to give 30 minutes of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer and/or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Analytic Personality ~ Pain: Out of Order
While serving the public, picture creating your ideal life. What elements would define your dream lifestyle? Consider aspects like consistency, order, and a balance without too much commotion.
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-4: How Do I Get People To Listen To Me?
"What if ... I have to talk less to get people to listen to me more?
Excitement
I feel lost.
Do you know a public servant who may have some interest in helping others in their veterans and is willing to give 30 minutes of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer and/or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
The Expressive Personality
Pain: Boring / Not Fun
While serving the public, imagine building profound connections in your relationships. What steps are essential to achieve the depth you desire, and what efforts would you and others need to make?
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-5: How Do I Drive People Forward?
How Do I Drive My Love Forward?
Growth
I feel misunderstood
Do you know a public servant who is powerful, passionate, has guts, are creative thinkers, a heart to help others and are willing to give 30 minute of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Driver Personality ~
Pain: Out Of Control
While serving the public, picture experiencing the most vibrant and impactful connections. Envision a relationship that channels your drive and passion, empowering you and those around you to reach your fullest potential.
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
1-6: How Do I Change Myself?
How Do I Change Myself According To The Situation?
Action
I feel misunderstood
Do you know a public servant who is listener, understanding, make sacrifices for one another, has a heart to help others and are willing to give 30 minute of their time to do a podcast? Call 630.393.9909 and share who you think would be a great guest.
Do you have a problem you feel you can't share for any reason and/or you have shared the problem with others and they don't seem to know the answer or their solutions don't work? ~ click here ~ to share.
Audio Podcast In Progress
~ The Chameleon Personality ~
While serving the public, picture experiencing an incredibly powerful connection, a partnership that allows you to fully leverage your drive and passion to help both yourself and those around you reach their fullest potential.
Video Podcast In Progress
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
2-1: Why will Life GPS mobile web app help me?
Are you looking for answers / solutions?
In the Amish community, what challenges are you currently encountering in your life or relationships? If someone were to offer assistance, what specific areas in your life or relationships would you appreciate help with the most?
People globally are embracing a free mobile web app to gain deeper self-understanding and insights into their relationships. This tool facilitates unity, allowing individuals to come together with a shared purpose and vision, pursuing not only shared experiences but also their personal dreams. The app instills hope for meaningful connections and excitement for realizing their aspirations.
Analytic
Out Of Order
Are you drawn to the cube and/or do you not like when things aren't done properly and in order? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn to better connect with others you may be frustrated with.
"Ready, Aim ... check, check check."
Driver
Out Of Control
Are you drawn to the Pyramid and/or do you dislike when things are out of control? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how to help others to learn to control their own lives so you don't have to clean up after others.
"Fire, Aim ... 'Are we ready?'"
Amiable
Conflict With Others
Are you drawn to the Ball and/or do you dislike conflict with others? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how not to fear conflict.
"Are we all ready? Are we sure?"
Expressive
Boring / Not Fun
Are you drawn to the Wavy Line and/or do you dislike things which are boring or not fun? Life GPS will help others to better understand you and you will learn how to have more fun in your life.
"We're ready! Fire ... Aim?"
2-2: Ask Your Question Here...
Ask Your Question / Thought and/or Problem Here ...
Would you like a volunteer to connect with you?
Share Your Experiences Here...
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The Voices of Integrity Podcast caters to visionary individuals, covering a wide range of diverse subjects.
2-3: What You Will Experience On This Podcast:
How To LEVERAGE Talents
How do we LEVERAGE in a positive way, everyone in our lives for mutual benefit?
How To LEVERAGE Systems
How do we build the right systems to LEVERAGE our passions, our life vision and all other systems for success?
How To LEVERAGE Networks
Are you LEVERAGING your networks and the networks of those around you for everyone's mutual success?
Voices Of Integrity . . . It is being designed and engineered to help you deeply understand "INTEGRITY".
2-4: Personality Types & Mental Health
The questions we ask, the questions we answer, how we answer the questions and what questions we tend to try to ignore tell us a great deal about ourselves and may reveal a great deal about how our mental health is currently and will be in the future.
We all have been given our personalities ... "Our Bent" from how we were created in the womb, through how we were raised and our life experiences.
The diagram to the right reveals what some of the common mental health issues are with each personality type.
Hmmm ... this is interesting, isn't it? Imagine ... learning about how we could identify our mental health challenge BEFORE they brought great harm to us and those around us.
What if ... we're thinking about mental health in the wrong way?
Take a look at the above list and see which one's we may see in ourselves and what this self-awareness may mean to us, our spouse and those around us.
Think about it ... "Does it seem that with each possible weakness" mental health issue that there is an opposite strength that goes along with this weakness?" If this was the case, what would this mean?
Might it mean that our greatest strength is our greatest weakness and our greatest weakness is our greatest strength taken too far? If this were the case, why would we take a strength and take it too far? Is it possible that, we are given strengths ... we value those strengths for some period of time but then pride / ego seep in and we think we're the reason for the strength? Is it possible that this happens without us even realizing it ... where it sneaks up on us ... and we get prideful / overconfident and then crash and burn?"
Is it possible that we are a poor stewards of what we have been give?
The Amiable Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Amiable Not Like Asked?"
Peace & Harmony
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Care for people.* Are nice to others.
* Love peace and seek to avoid conflicts.
* Enjoy being around people.
* Serving others.
Audio Podcast
Video Podcast
AmiableChose the ball ~ Does not like conflict
If you chose the ball and/or you chose that you don't like conflict then you likely are what we refer to as an Amiable.
Questions the Amiable Does Not Like To Hear
We as amiable personalities tend to like questions which reveal how nice, kind and loving we are. We tend to not like questions which challenge the way we think about ourselves.
What No One Teaches Us ...
As a spouse who is amiable, we tend to tell people what they like to hear, what feels good to people and that results in others telling us what we want to hear. We don't treat our spouse like we treat others and that can build a lot of resentment in our spouses.
The Analytic Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Analytic Personality Tend To Like Have Asked?"
Done In Good Order
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be strong in our knowledge to relationships.
* Enjoy teaching others.
* Have strength in studying & learning things.
* Enjoy explaining things to others.
Video Podcast
Questions the Analytic Does Not Like To Hear
We as analytic personalities tend to like questions which reveal how smart and intelligent we are. We tend to not like questions which challenge the way we think about ourselves.
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as analytics literally get a dopamine hit in our brain which makes us feel good because we feel smart ... and that can lead to pride and the other mental health issues that we often have build up over the years.
The Expressive Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Expressive Personality Tend Not To Like?"
Done With Energy
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be strong in energy and passion.
* Enjoy seeing others feel and join in success.
* Have strengths in being outgoing and creating excitement with others
* Able to motivate and inspire others to do things that people never thought possible.
Video Podcast
ExpressiveChose the wavy line ~ Don't like things which are boring or not fun
If you chose the wavy line and/or you chose that you don't like when things are boring or not fun then you are likely the the expressive personality.
Questions the Expressive Tends Not To Like
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as expressive literally get a dopamine hit in our brain which makes us feel good because we feel funny, important, the center of attention ... and that can lead to narcissism and the other mental health issues that we often have build up over the years.
The Driver Personality Type
"What Questions Does The Driver Personality Tend Not To Like?"
Very Driven!
Strength & Weakness
We Tend To ...
* Be very strong in doing what others aren't willing or able to do. Do the impossible.
* Willing to confront things which are wrong.
* Great at seeing a very large vision.
* Strong in taking risks.
* Very direct / honest with people.
Audio Podcast
Video Podcast
DriverChose the pyramid ~ Don't like when things are out of control
If you chose the pyramid and/or you chose that you don't like when things are out of control then you are likely the driver personality.
Questions the Driver Tends Not To Like
- How can you be so clear on your goals and you seem to be unable to even see the goals that I want in life?
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Why are you always so mean to everyone ... and you don't even seem to care?
- Why do you think people are so stupid?
- Why can't you just be nice to people?
- Why do you always have to be doing something / accomplishing something?
What No One Teaches Us ...
While there isn't anything wrong with these questions, what brain science teaches us is that often we as the driver personality, get a dopamine hit in our brain when things get out of control and we become a superhero ... which is not always bad but can be bad at times. Does it cause mental health issues in us or maybe it creates mental health issues, that often build up over the years, in others?
What Benefit Would I Gain? How Does It Work?
This Podcast will encourage you and help you heal!!!
This Podcast will encourage you and help you heal!!!
Quantum Feeling Model
Are feelings important? Of course they are ... but, maybe not the way we think they are. Think about it ... when we have physical pain, what do we learn from that physical pain? We learn that there is something that is not right with us. Physical pain doesn't reveal that something is wrong with others, it represents that something is wrong with us.
Video Podcast
Audio Podcast
~ Table Of Contents ~ Life GPS ~
How Various Personalities Are Vulnerable
Analytic ~ Cube & "Out Of Order"
Vulnerable to being OCD, fixated on the smallest details and miss the big picture. Can be defensive, have challenges in taking ownership and often struggles with ego & self-righteousness.
Driver ~ Pyramid & "Out Of Control"
Vulnerable to being perceived as being abusive, controlling and overly aggressive. Can overreact to their perception of things being out of control and often do not realize how powerful they can come across to others. Often these personalities are the most vulnerable but seem like they are the least vulnerable.
Amiable ~ Ball & "Conflict With Others"
Vulnerable to being taken advantage of and taking advantage of others and not realizing it. Due to fear of conflict they can make things far worse because they do not address things quickly. So focused on people that often tasks don't get done and/or allowing people to take advantage of use and those around us.
How Do We Change At A Heart Level?
How do we know we truly understand? We DO ... We Change!
Internalization ~ The deep feeling or sense, the embedding of something directly into our very DNA.
We are seeking to work together to learn how to help people / couples to INTERNALIZE things faster. The faster we INTERNALIZE things, the faster we achieve CLARITY as to the type of marriage we both desire, the faster we SEE success, the faster we learn to THINK differently and the faster we DO, or take action.
Internalization
Often, in our marriage, we say "I get it" when in fact we actually think we get it, but we really do not. What individuals are missing is the Natural Law of The NEXT Dimension Principle. It helps us to SEE that "Yes" we do "get it" at our current way of thinking but there is a whole new dimension, The NEXT Dimension where if we are humble or curious like a small child we will jump through the Dimensional GAP that maybe one spouse senses or feels the marriage is in, but the other one does not.
If we are the type of spouse that TALKS a lot ... has a lot of words, says a lot of things ... well ... we may be a talker and not a DOER and that can burn out a marriage. Often these types of spouses, just wear down their spouse ... give the impression to others they are working so hard, trying so much and think they change, but maybe not very much. If the marriage does end, these types of people will become a victim and work to get everyone on their side to feel sorry for the person. They will then become self-righteous, as they act humble, use a lot of words which they think convey humility and actually eventually believe it in their hearts ... but maybe not so much. What they never seem to realize, to be able to internalize is that they are entitled and share a lot of words, every chance they get to help their spouses to see that "Mistakes were made ... but not by me."
Another good book is "Stop Walking on Eggshells" and helps to understand Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD. What's interesting is that the spouse who has the BPD will almost never read the book. It's like ... they have imposter syndrome ... and somehow, in their minds, they believe that is a good thing and have data to back it up. Meanwhile the BPD's spouse continues to suffer and questions if they are the one who has the issues. The BPD is a master and the 9 D's to distraction of others. ~ click here ~
Time Wasters
When we learn to be intentional as to WHAT and WHY we are saying something and actually give consideration to if what we are saying has value or if there was something better we could share ... we will see our lives change.
People who are lazy and selfish tend to have challenges in having deep relationships and often are not very happy and feel they are not fulfilled. The reason we have feelings like this ... is ... well ... because it's often true. Taking medication may help to change the feelings ... but doesn't do anything to change the truth. We can feel good, in the short term ... but we are still lazy and selfish.
"10 Reasons Why Someone Talks"
We as human beings often seem to not think about the words we use to speak or why we are saying what we are saying. We waste words and often talk about things that have very little value. 
Why do people do this?
1. Poor Listening
What's interesting is that people often don't even hear the question you ask. TIP: Stop them and ask them if they heard the question you asked.
People often fear that if they answer your question, it will reveal something about themselves that they do not want you /others to know. TIP: Say ... "Hmmm, that's interesting ..." and then ask the same question again.
Often people think that they know more than you do and give you an answer to a question they think is a better question than you asked. TIP: Maybe say ... "Wow that's a great answer to a different question than I asked ... so ... what ... (ask the question again)."
5. Low EQ
Low EQ (emotional quotient) is Emotional Intelligence where people give you a low level answer to a question you never asked. TIP: Maybe just smile and say "Thanks."
6. Sphere Of Influence
Maybe Try ...
Try to have a bit of fun with people and ... ask them the question that they already gave the answer to. :-) What's the strange ... is that they often won't answer the question they already answered.
Maybe try ... "Did you realize you didn't answer the question that I asked?"
"Any idea why?"
Remember ... and give some room as most people asking questions ... also have no real intention behind the question so people aren't used to someone actually caring if they answered a question.